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Frequently Asked Questions about ClubFEM® DFW

Updated: Feb 8, 2023

1. What is ClubFEM® DFW? ClubFEM® is a social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female Dominant/male submissive relationships. The Dommes are in charge of the activities at all times. ClubFEM® Dommes are considerate and caring Women who want the D/s experience to be enjoyable for all participants. FEM is an acronym for "Females Enslaving Males". The term "club" does not reference a place or location but an organization of people coming together based on their mutual interest of Female domination and male submission.

2. What sets ClubFEM® DFW apart from other fetish groups? ClubFEM® DFW is EXCLUSIVELY A FEMALE DOMINANT/MALE SUBMISSIVE GROUP!

We do not accept dominant men or submissive women as members. Although, some members are switches and/or may be in a same-sex dynamic, we do not allow switching roles at parties and events. Women must be in the Dominant role and men must be in the submissive role. ClubFEM® is a relatively small group and members often become friends and do many things together outside the Club parties. An important advantage of ClubFEM® membership is that you can learn more quickly about the roles of Mistress and slave due to ClubFEM®'s specific nature.

3. Who can attend ClubFEM® DFW? All participants in ClubFEM® must be 21 years of age and must be Female Dominant or male submissive. All participants must submit an application for membership.

4. How do I become a member of ClubFEM® DFW? All future members are required to attend a munch and submit an application before being accepted as a potential member. You will be required to arrive to the munch on time because we have an orientation on membership at the beginning which normally takes about 30 minutes. Acceptance as a potential member is solely at the discretion of ClubFEM® DFW’s Head Mistress and the Board and is not based on race, sex, creed, or sexual preference. To become a full member you are required to attend a munch and at least two ClubFEM® DFW parties.

4.5 How do I become a full member on the ClubFEM DFW website?

Website membership can be obtained after someone has attended one munch and two parties with ClubFEM DFW. A fetlife message should be sent to Painful_elegance with your email used on the site and what parties you have attended and she will update your website membership status.

Access to the members area of the ClubFEM DFW website is a privilege, not a right. Access may be revoked by the board at any time without warning.

Anyone found to be removing information from the membership areas such as through screen shots, copy and paste or pictures will be permemnantly banned from accessing membership areas.

5. What is a ClubFEM® DFW Munch? A munch is a friendly, non-party setting in a non-threatening location, in a restaurant, where you can meet established members in order to learn more about ClubFEM® DFW. Do not expect any BDSM play. Please, review the rules and requirements for munches and other events listed. Our munches are held in various restaurants around the DFW area. You cannot take up a seat and sip water all night. You are expected to order something to eat & drink. Everyone must pay for what they order, plus a generous tip. Ladies unless your attend with a boy or a boy offers to pick up your ticket, you will need to pay for your order. Munches are usually held the 1st Sunday of the month unless there is a holiday, then it will move to Wednesday. We switch off between having brunch or dinner. Because munches are held in public places, please do not dress in fetish wear or expect any BDSM play. ClubFEM® DFW expects decent dress. Please, do not wear t-shirts or ripped jeans. Business casual is acceptable. Dress to impress. There is no fee to attend a munch.

6. What is the age range of members? Ages range between 21-99. We have a varied range at any given time.

7. Is ClubFEM® DFW for couples only? No. Although, there are many couples who are members of ClubFEM® DFW. There are equal numbers of single women and men as well as many couples who have met and become couples through ClubFEM®.

8. What can I expect at a ClubFEM® DFW Party? Possible activities that occur at a ClubFEM® party will vary. Negotiations are expected between the parties who choose to have a scene. ClubFEM® parties are by invitation only and what happens at ClubFEM®, stays at ClubFEM®. The privacy of our members is of the utmost importance.

9. What ClubFEM® DFW is NOT a. A Female Supremacy club. b. A swingers group. c. A sex club. d. A hook-up service e. A professional dominance establishment

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